Be fearless in pursuit of what sets your soul on fire

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“Mistakes can be a beautiful thing in improv. We just need to learn to accept and embrace them,”  says Alia DeSantis, a Toronto-based actress and improviser.

When Alia DeSantis was younger, her mother had taped a note to their mirror that said “Be fearless in pursuit of what sets your soul on fire.”

It’s a common adage (sadly, a two-minute Google search didn’t identify who first coined it) that inspires us to find something that excites us, that sets our soul on fire, and to pursuit it relentlessly.

Anyways, let’s meet Alia, a Toronto-based actress and improviser, who knew since she was a child that she wanted to become a performer. “When [my mother] found out I wanted to be an actress, she set the note on fire,” Alia said while laughing. “Just kidding! My mother suggested I become a doctor when I grow up. My response? ‘Why be a doctor when I can play a doctor?'”

How did you get into improv?

I did a little improv in my high school drama class, but only really got involved with it when I was at Humber College. Like many improvisers, I grew up watching Whose Line Is It Anyway? and was completely enthralled by it. I’ve always been drawn to comedy, but improvisation held a special place in my heart. I find the whole thing very surreal but in the best way possible.

What has the journey been like for you after getting started in improv?

It has been an incredible journey thus far, and it’s only just the beginning! I’m still fairly new to the scene, but have absolutely fallen in love with performing, and hope to be doing it for a long time to come. I’ve been very fortunate and have had the opportunity to work with some incredibly talented people on some insanely fun shows. I’ve only been performing for about two and a half years, but the amount I have been able to do, and the amount I’ve grown as a performer and as an individual is immeasurable.

What would you say is your biggest accomplishment as an improviser?

I’d have to say my biggest accomplishment would be BOOZE CLUES, a monthly show I produce. There have definitely been other shows I’ve been a part of which I would consider to be huge milestones, but nothing compares to this. This is the first time I’ve ever created, produced and performed in the same show, and the whole experience has been eye-opening. To say it’s a lot of work would be an understatement, and I’m probably greying early from the stress of it all, but it has been such an insane process and so unbelievably worth it. I get to perform with my favourite people in a show I love and hold very near and dear to my heart. It’s like a dream come true, and next month we have Colin Mochrie joining us, so it literally will be a dream come true!

Do you have any favourite scenes?

All of them! Haha. I find it way more fun to be weird and absurd. I’ve played an animated broom, a male pirate, velociraptors (yes, more than once), Josh Murray’s father as a literal helicopter, and the groundhog from Groundhog Day. Recently however a very unusual thing happened to me on stage. Somehow in the course of the set I had cut my knee and it started to bleed pretty bad. I was oblivious to it, and continued to power through although I’m sure everyone in the audience was cringing. Tom Hearn was playing my son, and he had been killed in a zombie attack, (but not by a zombie, by Amanda Parker who was playing a visually impaired sniper). Cameron Algie and I laid on top of Tom in a Disney-like fashion to bring him back to life, and in the course of it all my blood ended up getting all over Tom’s arm. When he noticed I thought for sure he was going to pass out or puke on stage. The whole thing was absolutely bonkers, and the audience was going crazy. Tom and I have never been closer as we now share a blood pact.

How has improv made a difference in your life?

Improv has had such an incredibly positive impact on my life, and I honestly can’t imagine where I would be or who I would be without it. Some of my closest friends are ones I met through performing, and not only do they play big roles in my life, they have also shaped the person I am today. Improv is a great source of joy, laughter and creativity, and I am so fortunate to be part of such a special community.

Can you tell me about a time you’ve messed up on stage and just rolled with it?

I did a BeerProv show a while back, and made it to the final four (meaning I had to do a hoedown). For anyone who watches Whose Line?, it’s the exact same as they do in the show. You’re given a suggestion from the audience, and you have sing and rhyme eight bars worth of music. I really enjoy doing hoedowns, even though it feels like your heart and brain will explode in the seconds leading up to it. This particular time I had come up with the most perfect rhyme and was so ready for my part. However, when I opened my mouth to sing, what came out wasn’t English. It was like my brain malfunctioned, and every letter of the alphabet came out at once. I tried to power through it, but just kept spewing jibberish. Finally, I broke and started to laugh on stage. The audience got quite a kick out of it all too. Instead of allowing that situation to defeat me, I took a deep breath, waited for the song to cue up again and began to sing. Sure, I looked like a goof, but I had a great time and was able to laugh it off. Mistakes can be a beautiful thing in improv. We just need to learn to accept and embrace them.

Where can we see you on stage?

I perform monthly (2nd Friday of every month) in BOOZE CLUES at Bad Dog Theatre.

Is there anything else you would like to add or anything you would like to plug?

YES! BOOZE CLUES at Bad Dog Theatre is coming up on Friday, August 10th. We have Colin Mochrie joining us, and we will be donating all the proceeds to Rainbow Camp. It will be wonderful evening full of laughter and love, supporting both live comedy and the LGBTQ+ community.

Tickets are $15 and available at: www.baddogtheatre.com/booze-clues

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Thank you for sharing your story, Alia!